tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6781608071091291202.post1825615667943977598..comments2023-05-16T05:53:23.739-07:00Comments on Shabnam: Finding love in 2008Shabnamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18246769062174678950noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6781608071091291202.post-9297169645424189732008-07-22T21:18:00.000-07:002008-07-22T21:18:00.000-07:00This is a pretty comprehensive and logical analysi...This is a pretty comprehensive and logical analysis of something that I think is not only a major crisis for many girls and boys in this part of the world but also is a product of modern lifestyle and the urge for perfection and competition.<BR/>The reasons behind your view of why women are (desperately) looking for a partner (and perhaps love) are completely thorough and realistic. <BR/>I guess what women need to be is "being happy with who they are, how they look and be themselves". I also agree with "having fun". Love will come to you when you are positive and are enjoying yourself and I have heard from my male friends that the most turn off for a man is a desperate looking woman. <BR/>I have also seen in many of my girlfriends that the main reason that they are still single and nothing is helping them to find the "one" is because they stick into a typical kind of man and they repeat the past experiences, many of them failed relationships. Being in love and happy relationship doesn't mean a couple have accidently matched and landed on heaven but I believe happiness in partnership is the fruit of common collaboration, compromise, patience and hard work to settle with the very idea that although we are different but we can sill get along. My personal experience has proven that love and respect to your partner's feelings and needs can be the key to a peaceful and happy relationship. I have learned that things would work out when both women and men are open to change and letting go of some of the self and power. <BR/>Its Ok if we make mistakes. No one is perfect, so if one needs a partner and a loving union, one must be ready to express her feelings openly and unconditionally and feel good about it! Even if it hurt at times, it worth trying. I have also learned that young women have different expectations from their partners and the women in their thirties, the ones that are mature and independent and happy with their lives have a more clear idea of what they are looking for in a man and understand the differences much better.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13672738386861586755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6781608071091291202.post-90885930801049105122008-07-18T10:19:00.000-07:002008-07-18T10:19:00.000-07:00To the point :) I guess one more thing to add is t...To the point :) I guess one more thing to add is that some people don't even want to settle down and they get shuffled in with all the people that are looking for long term love and they just end up adding to the whole confusion...Sanazihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10692074984598891352noreply@blogger.com